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Originally Posted by Jules2
No, no no, I am talking about the piece in the room moreorless after Frenchy was evicted. If we go back there was a point where Gary went soon after the eviction to talk to Dee. Now that was shown in a fuller sense later on. Nothing was heard at the time. You were commenting on the fact of "do you want to fight". You may be right, so much has happened it is difficult to put a time scale on it tbh.
She needs a warning, why should she be allowed to get away with that, it is bullying in the highest form. Audley was taken to the DR on a jumped up theme. She is volatile, look at the way she threatened the person who nominated her baby! How pathetic. Stephanie was pulled up about her behaviour to Gary, she has since toned it down and made an effort.
I just have no time at all for Dee, she is running the house and thinks that things should be done to her plan.
I respect what you are saying though, it cannot all be easy but Gary does have the upper hand with it all. He is better on a one to one situation but he has to feel in tune with the other person because if the other person is aggressive inside, it is hard not to react to that condition. He is a "sensitive" and the feeling originates from the solar plexus. He has great self control.
Perhaps Dee should look at the man and not the age, just because one reaches 70 does not make that person any lesser than one of 40. They have automatically put him in an OAP home, heaven help their own.
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Oh i agree that she has used some.. less that favourable language, but the whole 'scratch your eyes out' thing, i really do believe she was joking, me and my friends say that all the time, if we're joking about something that we do that some of us don't like, i do agree that it shouldn't be said to people, unless there's an agreed presence of humour when saying it though.
And i've said that since the beginning, Gary is capable of way more than he's being allowed to show, but i see that as a natural reaction, if i'm around someone of a certain age and looks to be unable to do certain things, i would take it upon myself to do it for them, without thinking beforehand whether or not they were capable of doing it themselves, i don't think anyone in there can be blamed for doing so really.
You have to agree though, that he does sit back and let people do things for him when he doesn't want to do it, because he knows someone will do it for him anyway?