[Jules2]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

Oh i agree that she has used some.. less that favourable language, but the wholer e 'scratch youyes out' thing, i really do believe she was joking, me and my friends say that all the time, if we're joking about something that we do that some of us don't like, i do agree that it shouldn't be said to people, unless there's an agreed presence of humour when saying it though.

And i've said that since the beginning, Gary is capable of way more than he's being allowed to show, but i see that as a natural reaction, if i'm around someone of a certain age and looks to be unable to do certain things, i would take it upon myself to do it for them, without thinking beforehand whether or not they were capable of doing it themselves, i don't think anyone in there can be blamed for doing so really.

You have to agree though, that he does sit back and let people do things for him when he doesn't want to do it, because he knows someone will do it for him anyway?

Ah ha,,, so we have to consider that Dee was joking, if I should say that Gary was joking when he said "do you want to fight" would you consider that? (dont you just love these smilies ).

I think with that last bit, they dont want him in the kitchen, he was washing up the other day but they dont trust him to do anything. Why is Adele washing his clothes, mind you it sounds as though she has made herself the washerwoman of the house.

The way I see it is this, if he peed on the toilet ask him nicely to clear it up instead of complaining. He spilt coffe on the stairs, let him clear it up.....the trouble is they see that 7 and the 0 and they consider him useless, he isnt. Look at the way he ran around with the "tickle team". Dee argued that his knee was bad, he said it wasnt, he had his pills and a support, the tickle team proves that. Ok he fell down once that was most likely because he had to get up from a low position and he lost his balance.

He isnt useless and they should stop treating him as though he was, give him permission to make a sandwich, I have seen him making a drink several times so no he isnt useless, they just want to treat him that way. He has taken part in all the tasks and hasnt shied away from anything other than sleeping outside, which, I may add, he stuck until 1.30am.

Treat him with respect and he will look after himself, as he said Dee wasnt and never has been his carer. That was an insult.