[smudgie]

now my thinking of The cat ladies being dear old ladies stroking their pussies in their rocking chairs is all blown to pieces.

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Greg!

People direct it at Facebook because that's what it means. Not everything is a bloody conspiracy or some sort of coded message towards other people on here.

If you look at the definition that's not what it is at all.

Not saying everyone who used it was directing it at members but I know for a fact that some were because of who they support and typically fit the 'stereotype' of the word.

[Ashley.]

I'm sorry but I'm reading through this thread and it's basically just "oh you don't like what I say? Well here's what you've said. You're just as bad. Hey, now we're even"... What are we actually gaining here? You can't emphasise on other people's behaviour as a way of justifying your own.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by smudgie

now my thinking of The cat ladies being dear old ladies stroking their pussies in their rocking chairs is all blown to pieces.

Smudgie get your mind out of the gutter ffs. We have kids on here

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by Greg!

Oh no I'm so sorry to hear that! Poor you.

Sounds like an isolated incident to me mind you, not a widespread cat lady conspiracy like some are making out.

Isolated incident my arse. It's a bit late to be playing the innocent now considering you've been exposed. Keep digging.

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by Nancy.

Isolated incident my arse. It's a bit late to be playing the innocent now considering you've been exposed as a liar. Keep digging.

Exposed as a liar!!!??

Get a GRIP.

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by Greg!

Exposed as a liar!!!??

Get a GRIP.

So basically nothing else to say?

Run along, babe. You're boring me now.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

This thread isn't just about people slyly being attacked using "cat ladies" its also about the double standards on here and the fact some people get away with what others get a ban for, and its time it was all brought into the open and thrashed out ,then stopped, there should be no rule for one and one for another, ALL members should be treat equally

I agree. All members should be treated equally. So why on earth you're allowed to get away with disgusting bigotry time after time is baffling.

[thesheriff443]

Can everyone draw a line under it and move on.
Both sides have had a a say and the mods have had input.

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by Nancy.

So basically nothing else to say?

Run along, babe. You're boring me now.

"Exposed as a liar" though?

You're talking śhite hen, and you know it.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Pretty sure people mean casuals (non-forum members etc) but it's only an issue to take the attention away from their slut shaming and appearance attacks which is a lot worse than the whole cat lady thing.

Since when has cat lady meant a casual viewer? That's bizarre.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Since when has cat lady meant a casual viewer? That's bizarre.

I didn't say it does mean that.. its about who they are talking about which is facebook!!!(casual viewer)

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by LukeB

I didn't say it does mean that.. its about who they are talking about which is facebook!!!(casual viewer)

You literally just said. Don't deny it hun.

[TaylorCallum]

Can I ask what is wrong with being a cat lady in the first place? If anything it's a term of endearment. Cats are great.

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by Greg!

"Exposed as a liar" though?

You're talking śhite hen, and you know it.

You are.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

You literally just said. Don't deny it hun.

no i didn't, people thought cat lady was aimed at forum members which i said 'pretty sure people mean casual voters" we wasn't talking about the meaning of cat ladies we were talking about who it was aimed at.

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by Nancy.

You are.

Okay explain to me why I'm a liar then if you want. I've got nothing planned today so I could gladly talk all afternoon!

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by TaylorCallum

Can I ask what is wrong with being a cat lady in the first place? If anything it's a term of endearment. Cats are great.

Nothing, my nan is one herself which i call it her sometimes and she finds it funny.

[Black Dagger]

Originally Posted by Josy

Actually this has been an interesting much needed discussion apart from the odd pointless baiting post.

If you think someone is trolling then report it and if it needs dealt with it will be.

And honestly anyone claiming they posted the cat ladies thing not knowing it was an insult is a liar.

Pretty sure I have reported Novo's tedious nonsense enough times. Can't be bothered doing it anymore!

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by Greg!

Okay explain to me why I'm a liar then. I've got nothing planned today so I could gladly talk all afternoon!

Oh ffs, go away. i've already provided examples which show you are. Unfortunately, other people DO have things planned, so I can't sit her all afternoon like you. Bye.

[TaylorCallum]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Nothing, my nan is one herself which i call it her sometimes and she finds it funny.

Exactly. It's hardly offensive.

[Locke.]

Originally Posted by Nancy.

Oh ffs, go away. i've already provided examples which show you are. Unfortunately, other people DO have things planned, so I can't sit her all afternoon like you. Bye.

Don't fall for their baiting Nancy, they're not worth it

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by Nancy.

Oh ffs, go away. i've already provided examples which show you are. Unfortunately, other people DO have things planned, so I can't sit her all afternoon like you. Bye.

No you haven't but okay. Have a lovely day hon!

[DouglasS]

I personally choose to stay away/ignore the lot that stick together and believe the forum belongs to them. Usually the types that posted often during off season/in the chat threads. I'd suggest to others feeling the same to do likewise and that way it won't affect you and will prevent any drama occuring . It's also good to have some originality on the forum I believe, it's not fun if everyone has the same opinion all the time or all post exactly the same, so it's good to welcome healthy debate.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by TaylorCallum

Exactly. It's hardly offensive.

I do understand now people do find it offensive but theres always a chance some don't. It really depends on the context but would i care if i was called one? No because theres nothing wrong with being one.