[Vicky.]

Everything a woman does must be about pleasing men

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Everything a woman does must be about pleasing men

Its our innate desire to be liked (attractive) and feel important. Its second only to the need to have sex which is linked.

read https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B004C055...ng=UTF8&btkr=1

[Marches]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Everything a woman does must be about pleasing men

Yeah women do up their hair and get nice make up not because they want to look nice and feel good about themselves, but because they want to appease the patriarchy

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Marches

Yeah women do up their hair and get nice make up not because they want to look nice and feel good about themselves, but because they want to appease the patriarchy

I don't fully understand patriarcy arguments if I am honest

But I do think a lot of things women do its because they are kind of pressured to do so by society. Stuff like shaving legs for example, of course some women may want to do it, some may do it to look more attractive, but some feel pressure to do it, because of the reaction they would get if they did not. If that makes sense.

Look at the reaction in the Lourdes pit hair thread tbh, for examples of this

[Marches]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I don't fully understand patriarcy arguments if I am honest

But I do think a lot of things women do its because they are kind of pressured to do so by society. Stuff like shaving legs for example, of course some women may want to do it, some may do it to look more attractive, but some feel pressure to do it, because of the reaction they would get if they did not. If that makes sense.

Look at the reaction in the Lourdes pit hair thread tbh, for examples of this

The pressure from ‘society’, imo, is from both genders funnily enough lol some women get catty about this kinda **** and honestly Ik a lot of men who prefer women without make up, plastic hair and body features ect

But I don’t think there’s that much wrong with a little bit of work or bothering with your appearance. A lot of women enjoy getting dressed up and doing their hair and make up. People dye their hair certain colours and do different things to their body to make a statement and feel good about themselves. Of course this might imply a bigger problem with society. Maybe we are too dependant on looks. But this is a widespread problem with the modern day and social media that involves far, far more than wanting to impress those darn men that are holding women down,,l

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Marches

The pressure from ‘society’, imo, is from both genders funnily enough lol some women get catty about this kinda **** and honestly Ik a lot of men who prefer women without make up, plastic hair and body features ect

But I don’t think there’s that much wrong with a little bit of work or bothering with your appearance. A lot of women enjoy getting dressed up and doing their hair and make up. People dye their hair certain colours and do different things to their body to make a statement and feel good about themselves. Of course this might imply a bigger problem with society. Maybe we are too dependant on looks. But this is a widespread problem with the modern day and social media that involves far, far more than wanting to impress those darn men that are holding women down,,l

Of course. It comes from both men and women. Possibly women more at times as they (speaking broadly of course) seem to judge other women far more harshly than they judge men.

[Niamh.]

Personally speaking I get blonde highlights because my hair was naturally blonde as a kid, it got a bit darker as I got older so I just wanted it back to how it was, it takes easier than dying my hair dark would as well because it's already naturally pretty light in colour, equally people I know who dye their hair darker colours usually have naturally darker hair. It's alot of effort to dye dark hair blonde

[Crimson Dynamo]

and ask yourself why red lipstick is so popular.....

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

and ask yourself why red lipstick is so popular.....

serious question would you be annoyed if TL went brunette? in other words are you really that shallow

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Cherie

serious question would you be annoyed if TL went brunette? in other words are you really that shallow

She is a pure brunette and has never dyed her hair

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

She is a pure brunette and has never dyed her hair

Clearly she doesn't like you enough to go blonde then LT

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Clearly she doesn't like you enough to go blonde then LT

I have not specified a preference in this thread

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Clearly she doesn't like you enough to go blonde then LT

[JerseyWins]

Brunettes >>>>>

Blondes can be really hot too but usually I find more brunettes good looking. And redheads for some spice!

[Kazanne]

I have had my hair all colours,it's blonde at the moment, but I do love it dark aswell,I just do whatever the mood takes me , seriously thinking of that gorgeous red colour that's about now,but not sure it would suit me,so not been that brave yet.As for men preferring blondes I think some might go along with that thought of blondes have more fun,but a lot of men I know prefer brunettes, but it could just be down to how blondes are perceived.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I have had my hair all colours,it's blonde at the moment, but I do love it dark aswell,I just do whatever the mood takes me , seriously thinking of that gorgeous red colour that's about now,but not sure it would suit me,so not been that brave yet.As for men preferring blondes I think some might go along with that thought of blondes have more fun,but a lot of men I know prefer brunettes, but it could just be down to how blondes are perceived.

Everyone is different some like blondes, some like brunettes and some like red hair. And other's aren't fussy .
Plus blondes dye their hair different colours as well , not everyone wants to be blonde.

[T*]

I prefer dark haired guys oop

[Crimson Dynamo]

My fave in Charlie's angels was always Sabrina

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

My fave in Charlie's angels was always Sabrina

i don't remember tv show character names, but Jaclyn Smith is still a hottie

[Crimson Dynamo]

A good looking blonde will always turn more heads

Factoid

[montblanc]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

A good looking blonde will always turn more heads

Factoid

it's funny because during Love Island last year (which i doubt you watch ) EVERY SINGLE guy said that they prefer brunettes to blondes as they're type

most of the guys ended up with blondes ironic enough bc there were so many

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by montblanc

it's funny because during Love Island last year (which i doubt you watch ) EVERY SINGLE guy said that they prefer brunettes to blondes as they're type

most of the guys ended up with blondes ironic enough bc there were so many

I'd imagine they lied to try and not appear shallow on tv

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by montblanc

it's funny because during Love Island last year (which i doubt you watch ) EVERY SINGLE guy said that they prefer brunettes to blondes as they're type

most of the guys ended up with blondes ironic enough bc there were so many

Love Island is a scripted Soap Opera though, even down to the fact that all of the guys had the same preference in women which just isn't believable.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

A good looking blonde will always turn more heads

Factoid

Loads of brunettes turn heads as well. It's a myth that men prefer blondes .

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

A good looking blonde will always turn more heads

Factoid

Not if a brunette got her fanny out