[Alf]

Originally Posted by Withano

You’re basically an advert for a genderless upbringing because this post is ridiculous.

Yeah it's ridiculous for parents to take responsibility for their children. Instead let the 4 year olds make the decisions, after-all, they haven't even started school yet and can't even tie their shoe laces or bath themselves, but they know the score on gender.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Alf

Yeah it's ridiculous for parents to take responsibility for their children. Instead let the 4 year olds make the decisions after-all, they haven't even started school yet and can't even tie their shoe laces or bath themselves, but they know the score on gender.

So you don’t trust a 4 year old to know what toys they’d like to play with? That seems more like an issue with you than the rest of the world. Work on it.

[Alf]

Originally Posted by Withano

So you don’t trust a 4 year old to know what toys they’d like to play with? That seems more like an issue with you than the rest of the world. Work on it.

Whoever is paying for the toys will decide what toys the child will play with.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Alf

Whoever is paying for the toys will decide what toys the child will play with.

You wouldn't buy your kid whatever toy they wanted? that's a bit mean

[Alf]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

You wouldn't buy your kid whatever toy they wanted? that's a bit mean

Lifes tough and you can't always get what you want. I wanted all the toys in the shop, but I had to make do with whatever my parents got me.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Alf

Lifes tough and you can't always get what you want. I wanted all the toys in the shop, but I had to make do with whatever my parents got me.

mmhhmm

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Alf

Lifes tough and you can't always get what you want. I wanted all the toys in the shop, but I had to make do with whatever my parents got me.

Can't the child be taught these life lessons once they're getting closer to 10 years old? At 4 years old you're suppose to not have a care in the world and within reason get everything that you want, not be being told about how “lifes tough” as they'll know that as they start reaching adulthood.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Alf

Whoever is paying for the toys will decide what toys the child will play with.

Yeah, thats your issue. I’m not gonna help you through it because theres probably a few decades of unteaching to go through. Somebody else might spare you the time.

[Alf]

Originally Posted by Withano

Yeah, thats your issue. I’m not gonna help you through it because theres probably a few decades of unteaching to go through. Somebody else might spare you the time.

I'm not the subject matter.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Alf

I'm not the subject matter.

Then stop talking about yourself.