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Then why not just explain to the customer ? , the way things are at the moment.... people are getting cancelled left right and centre for just making mistakes.

As I keep saying ,this whole " respect my pronouns" seems to be a one way street. As they can be as abusive and loud and nasty as they way ...even when the person genuinely doesn't know their gender .

Also think of all the abuse and name calling workers get called in general... funny how they can still behave in a professional calm manner . But not this self entitled worker ,who wants to make a scene.

Also if I've read the headline correctly,it sounds like it's another worker getting offended on behalf of the trans person? . That's another thing that irritates me aswell .

Well I assumed that the aggressive person in the video — the one that was shouting at the customer and who then ran out of the shop and attacked the person outside who was filming it on their mobile was the transperson ?!?


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The woman probably didn't know.
There's no need to be so aggressive.
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CaffeNero is the best. I love their coffee.
But sometimes I also get it at McDonalds.
I actually really like McDonalds Coffee, never buy it from any of the coffee chains really
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I actually really like McDonalds Coffee, never buy it from any of the coffee chains really
Yes, it's pretty good.
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Well I assumed that the aggressive person in the video — the one that was shouting at the customer and who then ran out of the shop and attacked the person outside who was filming it on their mobile was the transperson ?!?


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I think that the aggressive employee is a transwoman and that person was getting angry on behalf of the person behind the counter who is biologically female but identifies as non binary and the lady getting shouted at had referred to the person behind the counter as a lady ? I think anyway, i may have that wrong
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I think that the aggressive employee is a transwoman and that person was getting angry on behalf of the person behind the counter who is biologically female but identifies as non binary? I think anyway, i may have that wrong
YEP

as if any rational woman in their fifties would indulge some punk kid playing "im a non binary" not a lady?

narcissistic self-entitlement from a pink-hair coffee pourer?

i have heard it all now
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I think that the aggressive employee is a transwoman and that person was getting angry on behalf of the person behind the counter who is biologically female but identifies as non binary and the lady getting shouted at had referred to the person behind the counter as a lady ? I think anyway, i may have that wrong

You could well be correct


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Also if I've read the headline correctly,it sounds like it's another worker getting offended on behalf of the trans person? . That's another thing that irritates me aswell .

Which headline are you referring to ?


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I worded that wrong....I meant the news story in general.

Now I'm hearing it's actually a trans person getting angry on behalf of a person who identifies as 'non binary'. Which just makes this even more ridiculous. How is anyone going to know a singular person prefers to be called " they them " . Plus it's not natural to call a person " they / them" ,so obviously our eyes will always assume someone is either male or female .

It's gone too far with this oversensitive bs now . Biology doesn't care about people's feelings at the end of the day.

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Posie raised a good point in that a disturbing amount of adults act like their feelings should be front-and-centre, and have an incredibly entitled attitude.

In what world is it okay to act like that at all, let alone when you're working in a public facing role?


You might be thinking of the actual woman? She doesn't identify as a woman, she uses they/them pronouns I think.
t would make it easier all round for your average citizen if they made it, They/Them/It.
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There is nothing wrong with using "Hey you" when talking to someone

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I worded that wrong....I meant the news story in general.

Now I'm hearing it's actually a trans person getting angry on behalf of a person who identifies as 'non binary'. Which just makes this even more ridiculous. How is anyone going to know a singular person prefers to be called " they them " . Plus it's not natural to call a person " they / them" ,so obviously our eyes will always assume someone is either male or female .

It's gone too far with this oversensitive bs now . Biology doesn't care about people's feelings at the end of the day.

Yeah .. I’m probably too old to ever understand the finer points of this gender stuff ..

It appears to be an absolute minefield


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2 expressos and a latte please, Hey you.
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|it's not against the law to mis gender someone. How could it be given it's almost impossible to tell on occasion
It's not against the law, and there's nothing wrong with accidentally misgendering someone either imo.

However if someone were to deliberately misgender someone then imo they'd be being a bit of a douche.
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It's not against the law, and there's nothing wrong with accidentally misgendering someone either imo.

However if someone were to deliberately misgender someone then imo they'd be being a bit of a douche.
It doesn't sound like the lady from the OP did deliberately misgender anyone - the woman she referred to as a woman identified as non-binary, and the transwoman throwing the ma'amtrum was definitely the asshole douche.
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Well thats not very likely as the woman never knew they didn't take cash so i doubt she'd been in there before.
That's why I don't think that it's likely, and that more than likely the worker was being unfair to the customer and expecting her to be psychic.
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It doesn't sound like the lady from the OP did deliberately misgender anyone - the woman she referred to as a woman identified as non-binary, and the transwoman throwing the ma'amtrum was definitely the asshole douche.
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Alfie... That's barely even recognised as coffee......
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That's why it's the favourite of this tea drinker.
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Oh... Well that"a acceptable. Yorkshire tea, presumably? I'm a Nescafe Gold blend girl. My OH thinks I'm a heathen for not drinking fresh...
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