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Originally Posted by Maru

I would have to say no because I like to have peace in my life. It's not that I'm so delicate I couldn't cope with idea of being with someone with a checkered past, but at a point it's just common sense.

It's difficult to find people who truly believe in commitment now and can actually stick with it. So I would have trouble taking someone seriously, especially if marriage is even their goal, because harmony is very important and that requires both share values I think to make that feasible.

Also, a lot of people I've known to cheat or treat relationships too casually don't really have shame in that and so seem to have no problem justifying it. I actually respect someone for not waffling when it comes to being honest with themselves with their own limitations and I've learned a lot about life from such people. I just know it would be self-torture with the way my personality is because I can never treat relationships that casually.

And what would you say you’re looking for in a relationship? Is marriage always the end-sight (not saying that’s what you’re saying, but nonetheless man’s just curious, innit)?