[calyman]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I understand that but Aaron subsequently rejected his offer by moving his name back to it's original place. I'm no fan of Jay but the two scenarios are incomparable imo.

That's true, Aaron did do that but it does not release Jay from his responsibility. He does not need Aaron to make his decisions for him, after all he did not respect Aarons shared decision with him and Lou not to spend £500 each on Birthday gifts, rather he was duplicitious and went behind Aaron's back.. Perhaps Aaron may wish to donate the 15,000 (in his own name) to his chosen charity. Do you suppose Jay would agree to this?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by calyman

That's true, Aaron did do that but it does not release Jay from his responsibility. He does not need Aaron to make his decisions for him, after all he did not respect Aarons shared decision with him and Lou not to spend £500 each on Birthday gifts, rather he was duplicitious and went behind Aaron's back.. Perhaps Aaron may wish to donate the 15,000 (in his own name) to his chosen charity. Do you suppose Jay would agree to this?

Of course it releases him from his responsibility! (not that I even believe for a minute that he had any responsibility btw) But if I did believe that, if a someone offers you something and you say I don't want it, then there's where it ends imo.