[LukeB]

Originally Posted by kefln

It really does sound to me like you are looking for reasons to dislike Jale. Just something to justify why Helen is being so offensive.

That if Jale was to sink to Helen's level, then it would be 50/50, rather than just Helen making a show of herself while Jale acts like the adult.

no i'm not looking for reasons to dislike jale, i go with my instinct. and i don't justify helen's behaviour hence why this topic is called Disappointed we all have opinions on this but to me and others because there is a poll about this, jale needs to say something, there is a difference between horrible arguments and standing up for yourself. some adults do speak their mind when someone is being a dhead to them doesn't mean its immature. my point is, Jale to me is coming across 'playing victim' maybe she didn't plan this when she went it but she saw Pauline had a problem with her so took advantage of it and the same with helen. maybe if jale man up and have a friendly word with them then my opinion might change.