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Originally Posted by iiamlukee

no i'm not looking for reasons to dislike jale, i go with my instinct. and i don't justify helen's behaviour hence why this topic is called Disappointed we all have opinions on this but to me and others because there is a poll about this, jale needs to say something, there is a difference between horrible arguments and standing up for yourself. some adults do speak their mind when someone is being a dhead to them doesn't mean its immature. my point is, Jale to me is coming across 'playing victim' maybe she didn't plan this when she went it but she saw Pauline had a problem with her so took advantage of it and the same with helen. maybe if jale man up and have a friendly word with them then my opinion might change.

Originally Posted by iiamlukee

As a Helen fan I feel so disappointed with her by the way she has been acting towards Jale. i do feel its wrong . i feel she needs to step back and just ignore jale and never speak about her because its making Helen look bad.

First up, you called this thread "disappointed", because you are disappointed that Jale is making Helen look bad.

Your entire point is that Jale isn't kicking off and this makes her a bad person. But Jale would not be in this position if Helen hadn't put her there.

If Helen wasn't walking around the house calling Jale a Slug, then there would be no issue. If Jale was getting digs in, then it would just be two people arguing. But its not. Its a simple case of one person attacking another, for no reason.

So if you are disappointed in Helen, talk about Helen. However if you are really just looking for reasons to deflect Helen's behavior onto Jale...