[abhorson]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

But he's not his grandparent though is he? and although he might still dislike Gary to some extent, i have never seen him refuse to help him with things, which he easily could do and put it down to his dislike of him.

So carers should not be kind and understanding on the outside ? And even in this enviroment, there should be some understanding surely.

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by abhorson

So carers should not be kind and understanding on the outside ? And even in this enviroment, there should be some understanding surely.

What are you on about, 'carers'? Of course carers should be kind and understanding, but James nor anyone else in there are carers.. like i said, James might dislike Gary, but he doesn't refuse to help him whenever feels he needs to help.

[abhorson]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

What are you on about, 'carers'? Of course carers should be kind and understanding, but James nor anyone else in there are carers.. like i said, James might dislike Gary, but he doesn't refuse to help him whenever feels he needs to help.

Again, it is about understanding and tolerence. Cost's nothing does it?

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by abhorson

Again, it is about understanding and tolerence. Cost's nothing does it?

No it doesn't you're right.. but they do tolerate him, they might get severely annoyed by him, but they still try with him, that in itself shows tolerance in my eyes.

[abhorson]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

No it doesn't you're right.. but they do tolerate him, they might get severely annoyed by him, but they still try with him, that in itself shows tolerance in my eyes.

£££££

That is what it show's.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by abhorson

So carers should not be kind and understanding on the outside ? And even in this enviroment, there should be some understanding surely.

Do you think the hm8s are Garys carers ? fgs hurry up and lets get rid so everyone else can enjoy themselves without babysitting

[abhorson]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Do you think the hm8s are Garys carers ? fgs hurry up and lets get rid so everyone else can enjoy themselves without babysitting

As said previously, of course not.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by abhorson

As said previously, of course not.

It sounded that way

[abhorson]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

It sounded that way

Sorry.

Just understanding of the situation. James is not twenty.

Many twenty year olds understand it.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by abhorson

Sorry.

Just understanding of the situation. James is not twenty.

Many twenty year olds understand it.

Gary is an EQUAL hm8 and should be treat as such ,not be a burden on everyone ,where they get the patience they have all shown with him is amazing

[abhorson]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Gary is an EQUAL hm8 and should be treat as such ,not be a burden on everyone ,where they get the patience they have all shown with him is amazing

This i agree with. It could well be hard. But patience is what is needed. That is the understanding lacking,

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Gary is an EQUAL hm8 and should be treat as such ,not be a burden on everyone ,where they get the patience they have all shown with him is amazing

I agree, i do believe that people are trying to molly coddle him in there, he's shown he's capable of washing up, so now maybe they'll start letting him do it and that'll be the end of the arguments.