[ChristmasNeeve]

wow when you were 14 Ruby? That's pretty bad, he could have actually been charged for statutory rape considering how young you were, even if you had been sober.

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

wow when you were 14 Ruby? That's pretty bad, he could have actually been charged for statutory rape considering how young you were, even if you had been sober.

I know!

But it was a bad decision on both parts, so i feel non of us should be blamed/accused and i think this is where legally things get a bit sticky.

There is a definition of what rape is and this definition should be stuck to, however with date rape drugs being used it makes things even more difficult as there is intent behind date rape, if it can be proven that date rape drugs were used by an offender to gain sex then this is rape, the society in which we live in is ever changing and maybe there should be an overhaul regarding laws in this area.

As you know i have young teenagers myself and i've already educated them and will continue to educate them on the danger of alcohol and drugs.

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

I know!

But it was a bad decision on both parts, so i feel non of us should be blamed/accused and i think this is where legally things get a bit sticky.

There is a definition of what rape is and this definition should be stuck to, however with date rape drugs being used it makes things even more difficult as there is intent behind date rape, the society in which we live in is ever changing and maybe there should be an overhaul regarding laws in this area.

As you know i have young teenagers myself and i've already educated them and will continue to educate them on the danger of alcohol and drugs.

I don't know, there's a massive difference between a 14 year old and a 17 year old imo, 3 years is alot more than 3 years at that age If you were my daughter (and I have a 14 year old daughter atm) I would probably kill that boy :/

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I don't know, there's a massive difference between a 14 year old and a 17 year old imo, 3 years is alot more than 3 years at that age If you were my daughter (and I have a 14 year old daughter atm) I would probably kill that boy :/

Awww thanks Niamh. (I did tell my mum and dad but they said i was stupid for getting drunk.)

You just brought tears to my eyes......

(Your motherly instinct touched my heart)

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

Awww thanks Niamh. (I did tell my mum and dad but they said i was stupid for getting drunk.)

You just brought tears to my eyes......

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

I know!

But it was a bad decision on both parts, so i feel non of us should be blamed/accused and i think this is where legally things get a bit sticky.

There is a definition of what rape is and this definition should be stuck to, however with date rape drugs being used it makes things even more difficult as there is intent behind date rape, if it can be proven that date rape drugs were used by an offender to gain sex then this is rape, the society in which we live in is ever changing and maybe there should be an overhaul regarding laws in this area.

As you know i have young teenagers myself and i've already educated them and will continue to educate them on the danger of alcohol and drugs.

It's not a bad decision on both parts. Getting drunk is only hurting yourself. A Man raping you was him attacking and hurting someone else. How do you not understand the difference?

You sound like one of those battered women that says "i shouldn't have made him angry" after her husband punches her face in. WAKE UP!

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by lostalex

It's not a bad decision on both parts. Getting drunk is only hurting yourself. A Man raping you was him attacking and hurting someone else. How do you not understand the difference?

You sound like one of those battered women that says "i shouldn't have made him angry" after her husband punches her face in. WAKE UP!

Wow......judgemental!

I have no idea how you came up with that.........

I was a 14 year old and he was a 17, we both made bad decisions, my mum was a battered wife and i vowed that that would never be me, i suggest you think about what you type before you type it

As you have suggested in previous posts on other threads you have experimented and as a 14 year old i tried alcohol, i learnt from that and i also learnt that there are many opportunists out there who are willing to take advantage, i by no means sound like a battered wife, and i am highly offended by you implying that that's how i came across.

[arista]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

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Wow......judgemental!

I have no idea how you came up with that.........

I was a 14 year old and he was a 17, we both made bad decisions, my mum was a battered wife and i vowed that that would never be me, i suggest you think about what you type before you type it

As you have suggested in previous posts on other threads you have experimented and as a 14 year old i tried alcohol, i learnt from that and i also learnt that there are many opportunists out there who are willing to take advantage, i by no means sound like a battered wife, and i am highly offended by you implying that that's how i came across.

he is in California
its another world there

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by arista

he is in California
its another world there

Thanks Arista

I sometimes wonder if certain humans are devolving