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12-11-2015, 09:56 PM | #1 | |||
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A man should have a wife for the family and a mistress for pleasure.
Discuss this : I say yes and of the two roles I'd prefer to be the mistress. I know this will be controversial |
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12-11-2015, 10:10 PM | #2 | |||
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Can I have a husband for the money and a stud for the weekends?
Seriously though each to their own. If everyone involved in the situation is fully aware of what's going on then I don't see anything wrong with it. If it's not hurting anyone else.
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12-11-2015, 10:12 PM | #3 | |||
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Sorry I don't share, are you saying that wives are not pleasurable? That's a bit insulting don't you think? Also, I find this topic pretty sexist
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12-11-2015, 10:14 PM | #4 | |||
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My first thought when I saw this thread was "ew wtf no" so I guess that's how I feel about it I personally couldn't and wouldn't let my husband have a mistress or be a mistress myself, both situations would make me feel like a mug
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12-11-2015, 10:16 PM | #5 | |||
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There's no reason someone can't have a partner, family and pleasure without having to be unfaithful
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12-11-2015, 10:17 PM | #6 | |||
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12-11-2015, 10:20 PM | #7 | |||
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I think it's a reality though that there is a lot of unfaithfulness that goes on, and that (not all but) most of it is carried out by men. Maybe Kate's suggestion would help in some situations?
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12-11-2015, 10:21 PM | #8 | |||
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All hail the Moyesiah
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Just the one mistress?
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12-11-2015, 10:23 PM | #9 | |||
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If someone isn't content with being with one person, then they shouldn't be in a relationship/married, if people want to be in an open relationship then whatever, each to their own, I personally find it gross, but people who sleep with other people behind their other half's back are disgusting and so are the people who willingly sleep with someone who is attached imo.
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12-11-2015, 10:25 PM | #10 | ||
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oh fack off
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The issue I have with this notion isn't the unconventionality of the relationship, but with the implication that a wife's role should be that of a homemaker and nothing else
By all means have open relationships/marriages, each to their own and all that - but the suggestion that having a wife means her only role is to cook, clean and provide emotional (and possibly financial) support to the man while he goes off and is sexually gratified elsewhere is actually quite sexist. What about a woman having a husband for the family's financial stability and her getting off with some other blokes? |
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12-11-2015, 10:27 PM | #11 | |||
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Personally, I committed to being with just my husband when I married him and him to me, if he feels the need to go off with some girl who likes sleeping with other peoples partners then he's not the person I thought he was and I'd rather be single. If I got to the point where I don't enjoy being with my husband or him with me, then I'd rather be single then just stand around with my hands swinging while he goes off "pleasuring" himself with another woman If I was single and wanted a bit of fun with no strings attached, I'd rather find another like minded man not some slimey cheating asshole.........but that's just me
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12-11-2015, 10:28 PM | #12 | |||
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So the wife would be the skivvy and he'd have a mistress for the fun stuff? **** that.
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12-11-2015, 10:28 PM | #13 | |||
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12-11-2015, 10:30 PM | #14 | |||
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12-11-2015, 10:31 PM | #15 | ||
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oh fack off
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12-11-2015, 10:32 PM | #16 | |||
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You're preaching to the choir here Jack
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12-11-2015, 10:36 PM | #17 | |||
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The only way Kate's scenario works is if there is an open relationship agreed upon by both parties, and both the wife and the husband were free to look outside the marriage for physical comforts... but at the end of day, do relationships like this really work out?? It would be interesting to see statistics on the longevity of open marriages.
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12-11-2015, 10:37 PM | #18 | |||
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Personally I would never be able to. I was actually in a relationship where my boyfriend wanted us to be 'open' and I ended it as a result. But everyone's different and if it works for some, then why not?
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12-11-2015, 10:45 PM | #19 | |||
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13-11-2015, 12:25 AM | #20 | |||
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women only marry men for one thing, money and status, but there is other things that men can't stand about there wives, they treat there husbands like little boys, and try to change them in there own way,
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13-11-2015, 12:48 AM | #21 | ||
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13-11-2015, 12:58 AM | #22 | |||
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hetero relationships are definitely very complicated. i won't pretend to understand them. the dynamic between men and women is very complex.
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13-11-2015, 01:07 AM | #23 | |||
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What a load of bull****
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