[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

Good answer

But what about the voice thing?Could that be genetic maybe?Why do you generally(not always) see less gay men with a deep voice and more straight men with a deeper voice?That's not really something you can put on your whole life?

I do know exactly where you are coming from with the 'voice' point Paul, because I have met a lot of gay men who DO have a very distinct voice and manner of speaking; pitch, tone, inflexions - the lot.

It's very strange, because it does not seem to matter where such gay me come from either - I have met Geordies, Scousers, Tykes and Brummies, even Northern Irish Gay men who all had the same type of voices and way of speaking etc.

It is not 'effeminate' in any 'Larry Grayson'/ Alan Carr way, but yet there is a 'quality' there.

Anyway, I know what you mean.