[Cherie]

Originally Posted by RhysJones

We wanna know his coming out story, how his parents reacted, what type of guys he goes for. Trying to get to know the real Raph not some fake one he's trying to portray

Surely it's a personal thing how much information about your personal life you want to impart? Sex talk on BB is so boring as people try to outdo each other in the outrageous stakes, it's quite nice that he has something different to offer personality wise, Like his "what kind of books do you like quote" this is more normal on a first date anyway than what's the size of your penis

[Oliver_W]

Originally Posted by RhysJones

We wanna know his coming out story, how his parents reacted, what type of guys he goes for.

Do we? For most twenty-somethings these days it's pretty much the same - they say "I'm gay" at some point, and their parents come to terms with it. How his parents react to such an arbitrary thing isn't interesting.

[Slevin]

all i know is in his DR session last night he adopted that god awful line (type thing) Paulie (BBUS 18) would say all the time on the feeds. pretty much after every sentence. Raph being a major fan of that big giant massive a-hole has poisoned him. i felt like he said that on purpose for that reason & i wonder if any other BBUS fans on here caught that lol

[Crimson Dynamo]

unless he starts being much more of a massive gay then I dont think I can support him

i like my gays to be screaming, not covert like straight people

[Mick]

To date he is my fav HM.He is not shouting ,talking loud or interrupting.He is not seeking air time via OTT drama or making a big deal Re his sexuality and imo these are all positives.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Mick

To date he is my fav HM.He is not shouting ,talking loud or interrupting.He is not seeking air time via OTT drama or making a big deal Re his sexuality and imo these are all positives.

He has already got his own back on twat Joe, who was horrible to Arthur. The boy is doing good

[UserSince2005]

im not saying he should be running around screaming like a queen, im just saying he should be talking about the fact that he is gay. its part of his game plan to come across as "straight acting" i guess, if only for his own ego. but baby you cannot hide those limp wrists.

[Vanessa]

Not all gays are squealing seals like Marco

[UserSince2005]

listen! there is some grey area between being a squealing seal and literally not acknowledging your sexuality.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by UserSince2005

listen! there is some grey area between being a squealing seal and literally not acknowledging your sexuality.

He does talk about dating boys. But we don't see those clips on the highlights. There was a chat about it with Chanelle that was not shown.

[Oliver_W]

Originally Posted by UserSince2005

im not saying he should be running around screaming like a queen, im just saying he should be talking about the fact that he is gay. its part of his game plan to come across as "straight acting" i guess, if only for his own ego. but baby you cannot hide those limp wrists.

What? I really don't see what point you're trying to make. "Talk about being gay",what is there to talk about? Should he drop it into conversations, HAVE I MENTIONED I'M GAY TODAY? He talks about dating guys when it's relevant, otherwise, why would he?

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

unless he starts being much more of a massive gay then I dont think I can support him

i like my gays to be screaming, not covert like straight people

[Withano]

These pray the gay away courses need to rethink their method. All a gay guy needs to do is like shut up talking about it for a bit.

[RhysJones]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Surely it's a personal thing how much information about your personal life you want to impart? Sex talk on BB is so boring as people try to outdo each other in the outrageous stakes, it's quite nice that he has something different to offer personality wise, Like his "what kind of books do you like quote" this is more normal on a first date anyway than what's the size of your penis

If he wants to win, he has to be relatable to the public. And so far we've only seen the fake gameplayer side so it'll be a nice change. And ffs, nobody's sad enough and cares what someone's favourite book

[Locke.]

Originally Posted by RhysJones

If he wants to win, he has to be relatable to the public. And so far we've only seen the fake gameplayer side so it'll be a nice change. And ffs, nobody's sad enough and cares what someone's favourite book

Except for most people.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by RhysJones

If he wants to win, he has to be relatable to the public. And so far we've only seen the fake gameplayer side so it'll be a nice change. And ffs, nobody's sad enough and cares what someone's favourite book

Funnily enough no one on here is sad enough to be desperate for him to go into detail about what he likes to do in bed.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by RhysJones

If he wants to win, he has to be relatable to the public. And so far we've only seen the fake gameplayer side so it'll be a nice change. And ffs, nobody's sad enough and cares what someone's favourite book

No one is sad enough to care about a persons favourite book? Umm except normal people

[Oliver_W]

Originally Posted by RhysJones

If he wants to win, he has to be relatable to the public. And so far we've only seen the fake gameplayer side so it'll be a nice change. And ffs, nobody's sad enough and cares what someone's favourite book

I'd much rather someone talk about books with me than whatever the latest gay fad is.

[VanessaFeltz.]

Originally Posted by UserSince2005

im not saying he should be running around screaming like a queen, im just saying he should be talking about the fact that he is gay. its part of his game plan to come across as "straight acting" i guess, if only for his own ego. but baby you cannot hide those limp wrists.

No he doesnt. There are not defined rules of being gay or straight

What is "straight acting"? Is it being not feminen or is it not talking about being gay all the time. Regardless there is no such thing as acting "straight" or gay because there are no rules about being straight or gay.

[RhysJones]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

No one is sad enough to care about a persons favourite book? Umm except normal people

Films i get, but books. How is knowing what books their into is gonna benefit the relationship and make you like them more

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by RhysJones

Films i get, but books. How is knowing what books their into is gonna benefit the relationship and make you like them more

I laughed when he said that. Of all the things you could ask a guy!

[RhysJones]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Funnily enough no one on here is sad enough to be desperate for him to go into detail about what he likes to do in bed.

Fine, let's all have a discussion about Raph's favourite book and let's change the website name from TIBB to BB's book club while we're at it

[RhysJones]

Originally Posted by Locke.

Except for most people.

Why though, why would i give a toss what books a guy likes, the types of guys I normally go for don't care as well

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by RhysJones

Fine, let's all have a discussion about Raph's favourite book and let's change the website name from TIBB to BB's book club while we're at it

Yes because the only other thing about Raph that could possibly be discussion worthy apart from his sex life is his favourite book.

Obviously.

You must know some very dull people if you think it's the be all and end all of someones life and personality.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by RhysJones

Why though, why would i give a toss what books a guy likes, the types of guys I normally go for don't care as well

Why would we give a toss whether Raph likes to top or bottom?