[Vicky.]

Health visitors are entirely useless. Either they upset good parents, or they miss bad ones. We have had 3 in total over the years and only one of them was half decent and actually helpful. The others were just awful judgey people who had no actual kids of their own...which I genuinely do think should be a requirement of doing a job like that. You simply cannot do it if you think kids are all textbook. Doesn't work like that and your advice is garbage.