[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Withano

You said you were agender? Surely that is your feeling? You dont feel male or female?

I feel like me, thats all. I am female. I don't understand how someone can 'feel' male or female, rather than that just being what they are. As you apparently do, can you explain this 'feeling' to me?

Really seems to me that this 'feeling' male or female is actually being masculine or feminine. So stereotypes and interests? But whatever interests or whatever someone has, they are still the sex that they are. If that makes sense. A feminine guy is not a woman. He is a guy who does not follow stereotypes.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I feel like me, thats all. I am female. I don't understand how someone can 'feel' male or female, rather than that just being what they are. As you apparently do, can you explain this 'feeling' to me?

Really seems to me that this 'feeling' male or female is actually being masculine or feminine. So stereotypes and interests? But whatever interests or whatever someone has, they are still the sex that they are. If that makes sense. A feminine guy is not a woman. He is a guy who does not follow stereotypes.

Well, thats why you answered x in the poll i guess, you dont feel any gender, others do. Explaining a feeling is pretty difficult, can you explain your lack of feeling and how that is possible?!
As far as stereotypes and interests go, I'm way closer to woman than man! I mean, this is thisisbigbrother.com, this is not thisisfootballandbeers.com.. So its nothing to do with stereotypes and interests (for me).
Several people have said they are 100% female or male.. its just how they feel, they might be better explaining that feeling than me!

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Withano

Well, thats why you answered x in the poll i guess, you dont feel any gender, others do. Explaining a feeling is pretty difficult, can you explain your lack of feeling and how that is possible?!
As far as stereotypes and interests go, I'm way closer to woman than man! I mean, this is thisisbigbrother.com, this is not thisisfootballandbeers.com.. So its nothing to do with stereotypes and interests (for me).
Several people have said they are 100% female or male.. its just how they feel, they might be better explaining that feeling than me!

Fair comment. Anyone who voted 100% male/female...can you explain how you 'feel' male or female? Or is it a case (as I suspect) of you just feeling like yourself and knowing you are male/female?

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Fair comment. Anyone who voted 100% male/female...can you explain how you 'feel' male or female? Or is it a case (as I suspect) of you just feeling like yourself and knowing you are male/female?

I have no idea what feeling like a male is, only being a woman.
I don't do pink and fluffy, used to down 9 bottles of Brown on a night out, swear like a trooper and shag around for the fun of it, fight because I liked to
But I have never felt male...just equal.

[Tozzie]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Fair comment. Anyone who voted 100% male/female...can you explain how you 'feel' male or female? Or is it a case (as I suspect) of you just feeling like yourself and knowing you are male/female?

The latter. I just KNOW I am a woman, I'm glad I'm not a man because a lot of the time they are preoccupied with what is between their legs

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I feel like me, thats all. I am female. I don't understand how someone can 'feel' male or female, rather than that just being what they are. As you apparently do, can you explain this 'feeling' to me?

Really seems to me that this 'feeling' male or female is actually being masculine or feminine. So stereotypes and interests? But whatever interests or whatever someone has, they are still the sex that they are. If that makes sense. A feminine guy is not a woman. He is a guy who does not follow stereotypes.

Gotcha completely there. Great way of putting it.