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CBB16 Celebrity Big Brother 2015 (CBB16) aka 'CBB: UK vs USA' started on Channel 5 on August 27th 2015. Discuss the series here.
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18-09-2015, 01:59 PM | #51 | ||
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I guess this makes me awful in some eyes but i really wouldn't see it as my problem and get on with it |
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18-09-2015, 01:59 PM | #52 | |||
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18-09-2015, 02:00 PM | #53 | |||
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No,I wouldn't want to hurt their partner.
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18-09-2015, 02:00 PM | #54 | ||
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18-09-2015, 02:01 PM | #55 | ||
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18-09-2015, 02:03 PM | #56 | |||
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If you got with a married person and their family was completely torn apart, you would absolutely be as much to blame for that as the married person. Tell yourself otherwise as much as you want, but unless the married person has been having an affair with an imaginary person, there are always two people to blame for what has happened. |
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18-09-2015, 02:04 PM | #57 | |||
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oh fack off
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Are you a bit of an inconsiderate ****? Sure. Are your morals questionable? Sure. But have you cheated on someone yourself? No, which is the worst part of any instances of cheating. No other immoral actions come close to the direct issue of cheating on someone you made a commitment to. Quote:
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18-09-2015, 02:05 PM | #58 | |||
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Depends how much their appearance fee is
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18-09-2015, 02:07 PM | #59 | |||
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There's no law against cheating on your partner either Jack, that's as much a moral issue as being single and sleeping with a married person. Both are scummy things to do, I agree that one is worse than the other, but both are scumbags imo
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18-09-2015, 02:09 PM | #60 | ||
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I get that, and that is probably true and would if anything make their decision to go along with it even worse, but I still think they're absolved of most, if not all of the blame. And for the people who've never experienced that, well, they know no differently do they...but it's still not them who are jeopardising a relationship that they themselves have |
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18-09-2015, 02:09 PM | #61 | ||
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I guess we just have very different opinions on this. |
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18-09-2015, 02:11 PM | #62 | |||
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18-09-2015, 02:12 PM | #63 | |||
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And yes, we clearly do. If someone doesn't understand the principle of their actions playing a role, there's nothing more I can (or wish to) say to them about it. Last edited by Lostie!; 18-09-2015 at 02:13 PM. |
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18-09-2015, 02:13 PM | #64 | ||
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Also, the flip side of the argument that allowing the single person to be absolved of any blame is 'just giving them a useful excuse to justify their actions' is that by allowing the single person to take some of the blame, you are also giving the cheater free reign to say 'well they went along with it! They got with me! They were attractive how could I help myself they didn't try to stop me ' which is absolute ****ing nonsense. It's like dropping 50% of the blame on the cheater and handing it over to the single person, giving them somewhat a justification for the fact that they disrespected their own partner.
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18-09-2015, 02:13 PM | #65 | ||
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Because it has nothing to do with you? Like, i don't know the person so im not eally ruining it for them, their partner is...
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18-09-2015, 02:13 PM | #66 | |||
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18-09-2015, 02:16 PM | #67 | |||
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Being "absolved of blame" again is pretty subjective here as it's a moral issue so who is really the judge of that? I agree if the married person is prepared to cheat with you, then they'll probably be prepared to cheat with someone else too but I believe we're all responsible for own actions and you would be having respect for both the innocent party (the married persons spouse) and for yourself by not being a part of that cheating. Not to mention the fact that if you yourself were going to get into a relationship with them then it's not a good advertisement of how they treat their partner and if it's just a sex thing that's meaningless.....doesn't that make you even more callous to be a part of hurting a person so badly just for a meaningless shag?
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18-09-2015, 02:20 PM | #68 | |||
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But is it justifiable to get with someone that you like, when you are not in a relationship and are not hurting anyone that you made a commitment to? Yes, because you are free to do so. Quote:
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18-09-2015, 02:22 PM | #69 | |||
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Also, just because you think the 3rd person is a scummy person doesn't mean you take any blame off the cheater
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18-09-2015, 02:23 PM | #70 | |||
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No! I actually cannot stand cheaters.
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18-09-2015, 02:24 PM | #71 | |||
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Yes, as in doing the same as what she supposedly did. I'm completely in agreeance regarding Hazel, Daley switched between being in a relationship/being single pretty much every day and got off far too lightly given that he was the one in a relationship.
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18-09-2015, 02:33 PM | #72 | |||
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This is an interesting discussion tbh. I haven't voted on the poll yet because I honestly don't know whether i'd do something like that or not. Part of me thinks it's horrible (hello, girl code) but another part of me thinks, what if I really, really, really liked this person? I definitely 100% wouldn't sleep with them, but i'm not sure about a wee kiss.
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18-09-2015, 02:37 PM | #73 | |||
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As I've said, numerous times now (and after this time I refuse to say it again), my stance is utterly irregardless of gender. If two people have an affair, both people deserve to be blamed imo, and that goes for a man and a woman (and both ways, regardless of which is the married one), two men, two women, anybody. And that's certainly not a way to absolve the cheater of any responsibility because I never once said the other person should take any of their blame. Each of them should take their own, neither deserves to be absolved of any of it. Neither has done something that is in any way "justifiable" imo. Last edited by Lostie!; 18-09-2015 at 02:37 PM. |
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18-09-2015, 02:41 PM | #74 | |||
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No.
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18-09-2015, 03:09 PM | #75 | ||
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