[BBXX]

Originally Posted by vesavius

The best choice is not always the most comfortable one for ourselves. Sometimes we need someone to point that out.

Also, very few people going through infertility wants to hear this from anyone, whether you think it's your job to point it out or not (which it isn't).

It's akin to telling someone experiencing mental health problems instead of them paying for therapy have they just tried not feeling sad.

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by BBXX

Also, very few people going through infertility wants to hear this from anyone, whether you think it's your job to point it out or not (which it isn't).

Again, what we want to hear and what we need to hear are often not the same things.

I don't think that it's your job to tell me what my job is.

It's akin to telling someone experiencing mental health problems instead of them paying for therapy have they just tried not feeling sad

No it isn't. False analogy.