[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I tried to get pregnant for 5 years and nothing, had tests and stuff..found a cyst on my ovary but nothing else. Got pregnant finally and had a miscarriage at 8 weeks. Then got pregnant again a month after that with Skye. Then James a few months after having Skye. l never found out what was wrong but thankfully it didn't matter anymore. I feel for anyone going through this and I disagree that 'just adopt' is a great answer. Sounds selfish but I wanted one that was biologically mine

I feel people are misunderstanding what I have been saying.

My point is that, IMO, the money spent forcing such a thing could be better spent improving the life of a child with no home and that choosing to spend that money on personal wants over the needs of a child doesn't feel right to me personally.

It doesn't sound like what I have been saying would fit your case at all?

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by vesavius

I feel people are misunderstanding what I have been saying.

My point is that, IMO, the money spent forcing such a thing could be better spent improving the life of a child with no home and that choosing to spend that money on personal wants over the needs of a child doesn't feel right to me personally.

It doesn't sound like what I have been saying would fit your case at all?

Yes the money could be spent giving a kid a good life, but you could apply that to anything? Why go on an expensive holiday, you could donate to food banks around the country to help others. And so on

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Yes the money could be spent giving a kid a good life, but you could apply that to anything? Why go on an expensive holiday, you could donate to food banks around the country to help others. And so on

Someone that chose to donate money to, say, help a child rather than go on holiday would get all my love.

I love it when wealthy people choose to make the world better for others.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by vesavius

Someone that chose to donate money to, say, help a child rather than go on holiday would get all my love.

I love it when wealthy people make the world better for others.

Yea I agree with that actually

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Yea I agree with that actually

It's basically at the core of everything I have been saying here