[TomC]

Originally Posted by caprimint

I know this kinda thing can be disappointing but honestly this sort of thing happens a lot throughout life. Might feel like a 'waste' as such, but it's really not because you've learnt more about yourself (and most likely what you want, or don't want in a relationship). If you didn't invest your time in anything then you wouldn't get anywhere. Don't feel down about that side of it.

I think I just need to chill more tbh. (note to self)

It's kinda to do with my desperation for a relationship, whereas this guy for example is experienced in relationships.

What also bothers me is that I feel i don't know many gay people - maybe i should get to more lgbt events lol.