[Ammi]

..I think it's hard not to be excited when we meet people that we like but then it's 'first time stuff' as well Tom...I think that most people would have equally put a lot of time and thought etc into the last few weeks...he says he's just a chilled but a chilled guy would have made you feel chilled yourself, it would have been the vibe you got from him...and he wouldn't have to tell you he was chilled/you would have felt it rather than the feelings of being confused and unsure...'his experience' should have equally made you feel more at ease and comfortable...the only note that you need to make to yourself is that you're fine as you are and being excited is all part of who you are and it's not about changing but about the person who is right for you at a specific time in your life and maybe not him..?.../..anyways, wherever this goes or don't go with this particular guy, don't go changin' young man......he's not all that with his experience and chilled-ness if he's made you feel so uncertain in his actions...