[TomC]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I think it's hard not to be excited when we meet people that we like but then it's 'first time stuff' as well Tom...I think that most people would have equally put a lot of time and thought etc into the last few weeks...he says he's just a chilled but a chilled guy would have made you feel chilled yourself, it would have been the vibe you got from him...and he wouldn't have to tell you he was chilled/you would have felt it rather than the feelings of being confused and unsure...'his experience' should have equally made you feel more at ease and comfortable...the only note that you need to make to yourself is that you're fine as you are and being excited is all part of who you are and it's not about changing but about the person who is right for you at a specific time in your life and maybe not him..?.../..anyways, wherever this goes or don't go with this particular guy, don't go changin' young man......he's not all that with his experience and chilled-ness if he's made you feel so uncertain in his actions...

My friends don't seem to like how he's being - it's just too fickle. I mean I'm just going to try and stand back now, because clearly we're just coming at it from angles which are too different for it to really work, at the moment at least. It's gotten to the stage where I think it's become quite unhealthy - my mood literally has depended for about 10 days now on how things are going with him. Idk why I latched so hard on to him - I mean I do like him, but I am just to attached - I literally cried in private this morning after my friends told me I should leave it. (Really strange behaviour I know).