[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

If he was to have found out and knew that I knew he would understand that what I did was in his best interests considering the situation at the time...as I said he had been through some trauma and wasnt in the best mind set. If you love someone its only natural to protect them...thats not deliberatly lying its protecting. Since Meghan was supposidly suffering with mental health issues and finding it hard to adapt Harry could have addressed this issue with the family member and sorted it out without taking it back to his fragile wife and making her feel even worse.

Had my husband not been in a fragile state at the time then I obviously wouldnt have intervened...

But its a personal thing though to each relationship isn't it? You say that's what you would have done, I would not do the same. That doesn't mean I feel any less love, just that I would handle things differently.

From the sounds of it Harry wasn't in the best place either and so may have handled it differently if his mental health wasn't fragile too.