[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

For me personally, if my wife had been keeping something (anything more than something very minor) "for my own good" and then I found out about it later by other means and that she already knew... It would probably damage our relationship quite severely. I know different people have different relationships but yeah, we often see things on TV where one half of a couple didn't know something "big" that the other knew and we're like "lol how does this happen I'd have been straight on WhatsApp..."

My husband was in a fragile state...not with mental illness or suicidal thoughts but that was the very reason I did what I did.
You all sound like you would kick a horse when its down...unbelievable. If that would damage your relationship severely thats rather sad...