[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by lostalex

honestly i was probably most like your 3rd friend, i never wanted to, but my brother really wanted it, and he does;t really use the internet and computers much, so i really did it for him. I honestly felt like i was betraying my mom (my adoptive mom) by doing it, especially because my adoptive mom died, but because my brother really wanted to find out, i started on the journey, and it turned out to be awesome. but it's definitely an individual choice. I'm lucky to have had an amazing adoptive family, and they will always be my REAL family to me.

I think she feels like her biological mother abandoned her so she doesn't want anything to do with her which I think is a little unfair considering when my friend would have been born, Ireland was totally under the catholic Churches control and a young , single girl would have had literally no other option but to give up their baby, alot of times they were taken against their will. But of course it has to be her choice. It's not that I think she should find her mother, I just think she should forgive her and understand that she probably had no other choice back then