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10-03-2021, 11:26 PM | #51 | |||
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Either tell the story in its entirety...or don’t say it at all. It may seem he is protecting someone but all it does is create speculation on his entire family. |
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10-03-2021, 11:59 PM | #52 | |||
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11-03-2021, 02:04 AM | #53 | ||
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People who act like he should have said a name or nothing at all aren't interested in hearing who said it, they simply want to silence accusations of racism.
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11-03-2021, 02:50 AM | #54 | |||
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Like i said either way Meghan & Harry can't win, there's no pleasing people.
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11-03-2021, 03:08 AM | #55 | |||
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11-03-2021, 10:40 AM | #56 | |||
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11-03-2021, 10:45 AM | #57 | ||
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11-03-2021, 10:46 AM | #58 | |||
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11-03-2021, 10:47 AM | #59 | |||
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lol snap TS I literally tell Gav everything and vice versa, that's how we roll
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11-03-2021, 10:52 AM | #60 | |||
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...there is no right or wrong with that, we obviously know the person and our own relationship etc...so we do what we think is right...I also would never want something in that vein kept from me....I don’t need to feel ‘protected’ ...honesty is everything in a relationship for me, it’s the whole foundation of it...
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11-03-2021, 10:53 AM | #61 | |||
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If he was to have found out and knew that I knew he would understand that what I did was in his best interests considering the situation at the time...as I said he had been through some trauma and wasnt in the best mind set. If you love someone its only natural to protect them...thats not deliberatly lying its protecting. Since Meghan was supposidly suffering with mental health issues and finding it hard to adapt Harry could have addressed this issue with the family member and sorted it out without taking it back to his fragile wife and making her feel even worse. Had my husband not been in a fragile state at the time then I obviously wouldnt have intervened... |
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11-03-2021, 10:54 AM | #62 | |||
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11-03-2021, 10:55 AM | #63 | |||
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Are you accusing my Gav of something here, hhhmmm?
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11-03-2021, 10:57 AM | #64 | |||
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From the sounds of it Harry wasn't in the best place either and so may have handled it differently if his mental health wasn't fragile too.
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11-03-2021, 10:59 AM | #65 | |||
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11-03-2021, 11:00 AM | #66 | |||
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My husband was in a fragile state...not with mental illness or suicidal thoughts but that was the very reason I did what I did. You all sound like you would kick a horse when its down...unbelievable. If that would damage your relationship severely thats rather sad... |
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11-03-2021, 11:02 AM | #67 | |||
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11-03-2021, 11:05 AM | #68 | ||
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I didn't say its impossible to have a partner hide things and not know about it just that it would be a major, major issue if they were and it later came out via someone else or some other discovery. |
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11-03-2021, 11:11 AM | #69 | ||
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"Kicking a horse when it's down" is an... Erm... Interesting way to frame it though. |
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11-03-2021, 11:20 AM | #70 | |||
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I find it quite difficult to understand if Im honest. You are all saying if your partner was not in a good place and something came to your attention that would put them in a worse place...you would do it because honesty is the best policy....there are times when Honesty isnt the best policy. Depending what it is it can be discussed at a later date when someone is in a better place to deal with it...if the problem is diffused and goes away no one gets hurt and is none the wiser. Each to their own I guess... |
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11-03-2021, 11:25 AM | #71 | |||
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11-03-2021, 11:32 AM | #72 | |||
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11-03-2021, 02:23 PM | #74 | |||
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Fair enough....lucky my husband isnt ....and I dont know where the 'Horse' came from either.. |
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