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I just wouldn’t. That person confided in me, not my husband/wife |
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I’m afraid I would, even on t’assurance it’d go no further. We discuss everything |
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It depends on the thing/etc. |
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QB likes a good argument anyway. He was getting ready for the quibbles of life in the mother’s womb.
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Okay, listen, QB, do you want to share some of these bad-experience examples re. Samaritans with us on this thread? I’m not interested in having another argument, even if we do fundamentally disagree on the distribution of certain information. We’re just going to have to agree to disagree on that one but I get the impression that you have stories to tell, and I’m piqued. I know Samaritans isn’t perfect and I wasn’t extolling them to superhuman standards anyway. Just talking about the importance of keeping things in-house but there’s obviously nothing I can say to get you to change your mind on that one.
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Yeah, okay. You take your time.
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The other Shaun :)
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Not sure if my opinion would be valid here as I’m not married but if I were to tell someone a secret who was married, I would absolutely assume that they would tell their partner as well.
I think one key thing to a stable marriage is trust and the ability to confide in one another with the strictest confidence that it would not be discussed with anyone else other than each other. However I would feel very betrayed if I were to confide in someone who was married, about something that was very sensitive to me and not to be discussed with anyone else, for that information to be spread to other people. I would feel very hurt and be unable to trust that person again. I would like to think however that I’m a good judge of character and I’d think very carefully before I said such private information to someone especially if they were married. I think some couples whether they’re married or not, thrive on gossip and kinda get a kick out of making others feel miserable out of jealousy. |
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Quand il pleut, il pleut
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The other Shaun :)
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Like I say tho, some couples do thrive on jealousy. In this instance I wouldn’t say private things to these types of people because I would feel that they wouldn’t keep it between themselves and would use it against you. I would like to think that I’m clever enough to suss these people out but some people can be very devious and do things like this that you would never expect. |
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Quand il pleut, il pleut
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Quand il pleut, il pleut
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…yeah, I think we also both sense when the other has a friend who may be struggling a bit as we’ll chat to them more often/go see them more often etc…and either would just say…I hope everything’s ok…we would never ask if there was a problem, that’s just something we sense and doesn’t need to be said…
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The other Shaun :)
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And that’s certainly fair enough.
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another vice
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Not married but I'd most probably always tell my partner any "secrets" even if the friend asked me not to
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You figured out a way yet? I’m genuinely interested. Not being snarky now.
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I tell him most things ,but wouldn't tell him secrets that my best friends have told me,unless it something where he is mentioned.
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