[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

I take absolutely no issue with different people doing things differently or dealing with things differently, or even respectful differences in opinion on correct conduct: we all have our thoughts on things. I'm certainly not saying, for example, that people SHOULD feel compelled to share openly with a partner, or that a relationship is lesser if people aren't doing that. Every relationship is different and operates differently, individuals are different and have different ways of doing things.

I do draw a line at the clear condemnation and pointed judgement though, and I find the piousness about Samaritans to be misplaced - although I appreciate there may be a personal loyalty there.

You never answered my hypothetical situation question

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

You never answered my hypothetical situation question

Yeah, you’re not getting an answer to that.

[Redway]

Okay, listen, QB, do you want to share some of these bad-experience examples re. Samaritans with us on this thread? I’m not interested in having another argument, even if we do fundamentally disagree on the distribution of certain information. We’re just going to have to agree to disagree on that one but I get the impression that you have stories to tell, and I’m piqued. I know Samaritans isn’t perfect and I wasn’t extolling them to superhuman standards anyway. Just talking about the importance of keeping things in-house but there’s obviously nothing I can say to get you to change your mind on that one.

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Redway

Okay, listen, QB, do you want to share some of these bad-experience examples re. Samaritans with us on this thread? I’m not interested in having another argument, even if we do fundamentally disagree on the distribution of certain information. We’re just going to have to agree to disagree on that one but I get the impression that you have stories to tell, and I’m piqued. I know Samaritans isn’t perfect and I wasn’t extolling them to superhuman standards anyway. Just talking about the importance of keeping things in-house but there’s obviously nothing I can say to get you to change your mind on that one.

Great Post. X

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Redway

Okay, listen, QB, do you want to share some of these bad-experience examples re. Samaritans with us on this thread? I’m not interested in having another argument, even if we do fundamentally disagree on the distribution of certain information. We’re just going to have to agree to disagree on that one but I get the impression that you have stories to tell, and I’m piqued. I know Samaritans isn’t perfect and I wasn’t extolling them to superhuman standards anyway. Just talking about the importance of keeping things in-house but there’s obviously nothing I can say to get you to change your mind on that one.

Just replying here to say that I'm not ignoring this Redway, I'm trying to figure out how to give a good answer without inadvertently doxxing myself or -- ironically enough -- sharing more than I should online.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

Just replying here to say that I'm not ignoring this Redway, I'm trying to figure out how to give a good answer without inadvertently doxxing myself or -- ironically enough -- sharing more than I should online.

Yeah, okay. You take your time.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

Just replying here to say that I'm not ignoring this Redway, I'm trying to figure out how to give a good answer without inadvertently doxxing myself or -- ironically enough -- sharing more than I should online.

You figured out a way yet? I’m genuinely interested. Not being snarky now.